Chapters from the Book of Bob

I'm Bob Gerace — The Christian Marriage Coach.

For the past decade, I've helped over 4,000 men fight for their marriages when their wives were ready to walk out the door. Affair recovery. Separation. Divorce papers already filed. I've seen it all, and I've watched men pull their families back from the brink.

Everything I've learned is captured in The Book of Bob — over 3,000 pages of battle-tested wisdom that combines biblical truth, clinical psychology, neuroscience, and real-world tactics that actually work.

This blog delivers that wisdom one chapter at a time.

What you'll find here:

  • How to regulate your nervous system when she's pushing every button
  • Why your wife isn't your enemy — your amygdala is
  • The communication frameworks that rebuild trust
  • Crisis protocols for the worst moments of your marriage
  • The theology of headship that most pastors won't teach you

This isn't theory. Every word comes from coaching real men through real crises. Men who are now leading thriving families.

If you're in the fight of your life for your marriage, you're in the right place.


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